Meet your Coach

Hey, I'm Patrick Chan 

I was born in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn, New York, to immigrant parents from Hong Kong, and I am the son of legendary Master Celebrity Facialist Ling Chan.

From an early age, I sensed that my life carried a deeper purpose. Yet like many, I was shaped by conventional education and societal conditioning, gradually disconnecting from my inner truth and forgetting why I was here.

That disconnection led to years of inner and outer struggle—emotional pain, self-doubt, unresolved trauma, and the pressure to succeed without a clear sense of alignment. These challenges became the catalyst for my awakening.

A Turning Point

At the age of 22, my life changed when the great Buddhist Master Khongyla Rato Rinpoche shared a profound message with me.

He revealed that in a past life I had been a monk—and that in this lifetime, my path was not renunciation, but integration. I was meant to live fully in the world, while carrying a spiritual mission to serve humanity as a layperson.

At the time, I was helping grow my family’s skincare business while navigating deep emotional healing. I knew I was called to serve, but the shape of that calling was still unfolding.

Devotion, Study & Integration

Over the past three decades, I have traveled to India more than ten times to study and meditate at Tibetan Buddhist monasteries, immersing myself in ancient teachings on how to tame the mind and open the heart.

My studies include Lo Jong, non-attachment, compassion, life emptiness, and the intersection of spirituality and Quantum Physics, under the guidance of esteemed Buddhist Masters.

In parallel, I pursued modern personal development and leadership training, learning from teachers such as Jim Rohn, Bob Proctor, John Maxwell, and Robin Sharma—integrating timeless wisdom with practical embodiment.

Entrepreneurship as a Spiritual Path

Spirituality was never meant to exist apart from life.

As CEO of LING New York, I helped build our skincare brand into a globally recognized luxury brand, featured in five-star resorts and spas worldwide—including the Maldives, London, Dubai, Copenhagen, South Africa, and Macau.

This journey taught me that success without alignment feels empty—and alignment without embodiment remains incomplete. True fulfillment comes when inner mastery and outer creation move together.

The Inner & Outer Game Podcast

Out of that devotion and integration, the podcast naturally emerged.

It became a space to share what I was living and learning and to speak openly about the inner foundations required for outer clarity. Self-love. Discipline. Regulation. Awareness.

An ongoing conversation.
An extension of the work.
A place where we tame the mind and open the heart.